THE CHECKLIST BEFORE THE WEDDING

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Wedding Checklist

Break your to-do list into bite-sized chunks to make wedding planning smooth

Choose a Venue

Okay, you know who you're marrying. Now the real question is where? Trust us: Choosing a location is one of the most important decisions you'll make right now. Seriously, the location affects almost everything else, from how many people you invite to what kind of flowers go on the table. There is a good chance that the location is the biggest cost at the wedding. That's why you want to explore your options, visit the best places and the places that fit your vision and the style you want to capture on your big day. The number of guests should also be taken into account, which decoration, furnishings, if waiters and kitchen staff are included and budget.

When you choose your location,review the pros and cons list and trust your gut - this decision is about how you feel when you're there.

Buy wedding insurance

Att ordna ett bröllop är en stor ekonomisk investering, så se över så att er försäkring skyddar er mot skador och skulder på den stora dagen.

Chose Catering company

Your wedding is the best (and biggest) dinner party of your life. So how exactly do you feed xx number of your loved ones? Start by hiring people you trust - again think through your vision and figure out what kind of food fits your vision, and be creative if necessary to suit you. The guests will enjoy and you will enjoy! 🎨💐📸🎵
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Choose a color theme and start thinking about overall design

Bring out your Pinterest/instagram inspo. It's finally time to gather inspiration, choose a color palette and create a mood board. If you struggle with inspo, we recommend taking a step back to look at things that are already in your world – like how you've decorated your house, what you like on Instagram, etc. – and draw inspiration from it. Another tip could be - check if a wedding fair is being organized in the near future and browse magazines to find more inspiration for your mood board. 

Hire suppliers who book up quickly, e.g. your photographer, band, DJ

These are the people who will make your evening unforgettable. Do your research before hiring them and maybe even meet photographer and have them take your engagement portraits. Let London DJ Stockholm take care of your first dance and provide the party atmosphere during the wedding night, it can also be good to arrange a meeting to share your vision and favorite songs.

10 months left

Start looking for your wedding dress

You may or may not have exactly what you want or may not, which is also okay. Take inspiration from what you saved on Instagram and other channels, wedding fairs and magazines that inspire you. Perhaps a girls' weekend to, for example, London could be relevant to find the perfect wedding dress. Review which options suit you and your budget. But this is probably the most important day of your life.

Book hotel rooms/ plan overnight stay situation for guests

It's a nice gesture to block rooms (and secure a discounted rate) for your guests if the opportunity exists. Review options when you know where you will have your wedding and party. 

Take engagement photos

Now is a good time to practice being in front of the camera, especially since most photographers include a session in their package.

Start looking at invitations

The wedding invitation is a guest's first impression of your big day. In addition, it sets the stamp on the anticipation of your wedding. If the invitation is to be designed by you - start working with a graphic designer now to create your unique invitation. If you are not going to custom design your invitation, you can wait until there are six months left. (Invitations should be sent out six to eight weeks before the big day. 

9 months left

Buy your wedding dress

It's time to say "yes" to the dress if you want to avoid stress and delivery times. 

Send Save-the-Dates

Officially let everyone know when and where you're making it official. And remember: Everyone who gets a save-the-date gets a wedding invitation. No exceptions.

8 months left

Register for gifts

Involve your better half in this one – after all, the two of you are building a life (and home) together. When you sign up, it's smart to ask for things—like sheets, pots, pans, and so on—but it's even smarter to think about what you really want. Are you an adventurer? Charity donor? Think about your hobbies and tailor the registry to your soon-to-be married lifestyle.

Choose bridesmaid dresses and bridal party accessories and set a date to try on the dresses.

After browsing for inspiration, ask your bridesmaids to shop with you IRL— if they live nearby. It will be helpful to see them together in their dresses, and you can even ask how they feel about the options you are considering. After all, they must wear it in front of a crowd of hundreds. Consider accessories and accessories while you're at it.

Meet potential florists

Just like hiring other vendors, you also want to be in sync with your florist. To do that, we suggest asking friends for recommendations, scrolling through Instagram inspo, and asking your planner who they recommend in the area. It is important that you find someone who can deliver your vision and budget.

7 months left

Book the rehearsal dinner room

One idea is to go with the same theme as the wedding itself or why not your favorite restaurant? 

Think about whether you want musicians at the wedding

It's time to book the musician or singer for your wedding, this makes the whole event during the wedding a little more personal. 

Order rental items, such as special chairs, drapery, lounge furniture, dance floors, etc.

You might think that all this extra is a little over the top, but the fact is that in your wedding day decoration will have a great impact on the final result. Perhaps it is already included in the place you have chosen to have your wedding. Conclusion: Don't skimp on upgraded chairs and cozy lounge furniture (your guests will thank you) if your budget allows.

Hire a wedding officiant

If you are not getting married in a house of worship, you will need to hire someone to make it official.

6 months left

Hire a lighting technician

The most important detail couples forget about is lighting. Seriously, the bulbs and candles you choose are what will ultimately light up your perfect location, get your photos just right and keep the party going – even after the sun has gone down.

5 months left

Book transportation for guests, if needed

How do you know if it is needed? Consider your venue's parking situation, guests' access to car services or public transportation, and the cost if you ask them to get there themselves. A good rule of thumb: If it's going to cost guests 200 SEK or more—especially if you've already asked them to travel for a destination wedding—consider a bus.

Book transport for you, the newlyweds

Time to think about you two. Whether you want to get into a limousine for a stretch or on a tandem bike - get around in a style that's yours.

Book the honeymoon

Traditionally, wedding etiquette dictates that the groom plans a surprise honeymoon for the bride. But it's probably a little way back in time. Think about yourselves, what is your dream trip, or what fits into your lifestyle and make this trip an opportunity to land as wife and husband, before you step into everyday life together.  

Buy or rent the groom's tuxedo

The groom goes out first, remember? Make sure the first impression on your guests is a good one. Step one is to choose between a tuxedo or suit, based on the formality of your wedding, and then decide whether to buy or rent. When choosing the actual outfit, focus on fit and function. A well-made outfit will be flattering, but also allow your groom to show off any embarrassing dance moves without fear of splitting seams. 

Begin premarital counselling

Whether you come from a religious background or not, premarital counselling has worked wonders for countless couples. (The experts say so, and so do the couples.) It's good to have an objective third party to encourage you to address issues that haven't come up yet in your relationship. And counselors can provide healthy conflict resolution tactics so you're ready when the inevitable disagreement presents itself.

4 months left

Have your final tasting with the caterer

At this point, you have shared your picture with the caterer. Now it's time to taste whether they really captured your vision. Tasting has become increasingly important as more and more couples choose to customize everything from their signature cocktails to their desserts. Be critical, it's your big day and the food is an important element of the wedding day itself for you and for the guests.

Choose your cake

Now you and your partner should agree on a look and taste profile that you both love. Don't stress about pleasing every single one of your guests. This is your cake as a couple. Has the cake/cakes been decided? You need a baker. Find one and go to a tasting where you share your vision.  

Buy a wedding ring

Does your fiancé (or you) know the difference between an engagement ring and a wedding ring? (And don't forget to buy insurance for these, too.)

Choose the groom's attire and schedule fittings within the month

Want the groom and his crew to be matchy-matchy?

How can you ensure that the entire entourage is assembled on time? Make a plan with the groom. 

Hair and make-up samples

Help the professionals help you by giving them a clear picture of how you think and what your vision is. Look back at old photos of yourself to find something that has worked in the past and makes sure you still look like yourself. Bring the pictures and be as specific as possible with the stylist about what you want and don't want. Here it can also be a good time to review contacts and perhaps both make-up and hair can be arranged by people close to you. Good for the budget, but splurge just because - it's your big day and it should feel right! 

3 months left

Order the invitations

There are a few ground rules when it comes to ordering wedding invitations: Order enough of them to allow for any mistakes, make sure they arrive on time, create a system to record RSVPs, and confirm all addresses and spelling. But when it comes to design and wording, the options are endless. Need some advice on how to get it all under control? Keep reminding yourselves that the theme of your invitations should match the atmosphere of the wedding and express you as a couple.

Create or plan your menu

After a successful tasting, you have a good feel for a caterer's style and offerings, and you are now ready to order the final menu. Maybe you are the couple who have hand-picked every main, side, dessert and drink situation. Or maybe you just told the chef to “deal with it”. Anyway, now is the time to stamp your approval on a finished menu that suits your budget, taste and timing.

Brainstorm guest favours and gift bags

You don't inte  göra presentpåsar, men nu är det dags att bestämma om ni ska ha det till era gäster. 

Book a photo booth rental

Photo booths have become a hit and something that often occurs at weddings. This is also a good time to think about it if you have any other ideas for the party. 

Write your vows

If you have chosen to write your own vows to each other, start thinking about how they should sound for the two of you as a couple. Traditionally? Feminist? Pop culture inspired?  

Select readings

Bible verses are a choice here, but there are also plenty of non-religious options. If you prefer designated readers to choose their own, be sure to give them as much guidance as possible.

Meet the officiant and invite them to the rehearsal dinner

Can your officiant be chosen legally, affordably and meaningfully help the two of you become one? Once you've chosen, make sure they're on the same page as you about expectations and the overall tone of the ceremony. 

2 months left

Send the wedding invitations (with RSVP due 1 month before the wedding)

You've already done the hard part – the selection process. Now it's just a matter of printing and mounting.

Send out rehearsal dinner invitations (these can be included in the wedding invitations if you wish)

First dress fitting

Your first fitting of the dress should be anywhere between two to three months after ordering, and your second fitting should fall around the six-week mark.

Buy underwear for wedding dresses

After the initial fitting, you can purchase the underwear needed to set the foundation. It's best to wait until this point because the first trial of the wedding dress will determine what type of underwear – from shapewear to underwear – the design will require.

Get your marriage license

Ah, the fine print. When you get your marriage license, it's important to know where to go, what to bring, how much it will cost, how long it will take, and how long it will last.

Buy wedding favours

How much you spend on wedding favours is an individual decision, but regardless of your price point, the goal should be to give something that is as thoughtful, functional, and personal as possible. Here are some suggestions.

Make a floral mock-up with your florist

Flower samples vary depending on the florist and your own wedding decor choices. Now is the time to finalize your delivery and care strategy.

Give the song selections to your band or DJ

Give song selections to ceremony musicians

Buy all small items

Just off the top of our heads, they include table numbers, toasting flutes, cake toppers, cake stand, cake knife, guest tray, card box, ring bearer accessories, flower girl accessories, a cute hanger for the dress and a garter (if you choose to wear one). Also consider purchasing pashminas, flip-flops and/or sunglasses for guests to change into at the reception, as well as baskets to hold them. Then don't forget your signs ("Welcome", "Guest book", "Dance shoes", etc.).

1 month left

Make gift bags

Order or make placement cards 

Have a final site walkthrough

Make a list of questions ahead of time and bring your planner or another close friend or family member to cover anything you forget.

Walk in your wedding shoes

Dance in the kitchen. Do everything in your power to avoid painful blisters on your wedding night.

Last week

Congratulations! You've made it all the way to the final week of wedding planning. Take a deep breath now, most of the hard work is over at this point. Now only the small details remain. Take care of things like:

• Refresh your hair color
• Get your eyebrows done
• Manicure/pedicure
• Having a massage (why not make it a couples massage?)
• Final dress fitting 
• Pack your bags for the honeymoon (don't forget your passports if you leave the country) 
• Clean your ring (go to your jeweller to have your engagement ring professionally cleaned so it's extra sparkly on your wedding day)
• Clear to-do list so you can focus only on wedding festivities and take it all in wedding festivities och ta in allt
• Practice your vows out loud
• Write a note to your partner

Night before and wedding day

The big day is finally here. All the careful preparation and creative planning has come to fruition, and it's time to enjoy the wedding. How to use: 

Night before

Eat a healthy meal

Pack a small bag with personal items

Drink Water

Get a good night's sleep

Place any suitcases, bags and survival kits to bring to the ceremony or reception in the car.

The morning of:

• Eat breakfast
• Drink even more water
• Get your dress and veil out of the bag early and have someone steam them if needed
• Lay out any items (rings, invitations, etc.) that you want the photographer to capture
• Exchange notes with your partner
• Say thank you to everyone around you

CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR WEDDING - THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE.